Some things I've learned from my first "almost relationship" in college:
- Don't let him get too flirty; don't let yourself get too flirty. Especially at first, don't let it get physical. You need to be careful of excessive or special hugs even, and very careful of snuggling. It will not make you closer. It will only hurt you.
- If he's a flirt – just straight out, that's his personality – set boundaries. If he does something that makes you even mildly uncomfortable, don't let him do it. Don't trick yourself into thinking: "I'm not used to hugging and stuff. I just need to chill and become more comfortable with touching."
- If he is unclear and acting weird, don't assume that you did something wrong. Don't mess up your head trying to figure out what you need to do to smooth things over. Unless you fought with him or said something wrong, you don't need to do anything to bring him back around to you. You don't need to tiptoe to please him.
- If he makes you feel like a princess and then makes you feel like dirt, let go. You two are through. However good a person he may be, he is not that "good guy"for you. You can still be friendly be with him but you need to stop crushing on him. It doesn't matter that he helped you through rough times. There are men out there you really do care and will go out of their way for you. Find some, but don't spill your emotional guts all over them.
- You are God's princess and He will send you a man who ALWAYS, not just sometimes, makes you feel like a blessed child of God.
~Meggy
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